Monday, June 16, 2008

Hard Weekend

I had my big family BBQ this weekend. Of course it rained for most of it - but they still had the fireworks at the park behind our house and it was a great show.

It was a hard weekend for me - because everyone at the BBQ kept telling me to relax - regarding our infertility. My SIL kept it up all night - I tried so many times to explain to her that relaxing is not going to get us pregnant - we have a problem - MFI - I told her we tried for a whole year - just relaxing and trying and it did not work - now we are year into fertility treatment - relaxing has gone out the window a long time ago.

It actually hurts my feeling when people tell me to relax - because me and DH have been working so hard to have a baby and people just brush it off like it is no big deal - it is a big deal to us.

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