I have a friend who copies off of me all of the time and I seriously cannot take it anymore. John says I should take it as a complient but I cannot - it pisses me off - all I keep thinking - can't she think of her own ideas.
I will give you some examples:
The big one is my kitchen - she had her kitchen remodeled about a year before mine. It was apple theme - which was nice. I got mine done and did a coffee theme. The next time I went to her house her kitchen was coffee themed and then she tries to act like it was her idea - sorry sister you copied off of me - at least admit it.
Then I got into coach bags - well guess who is into coach bags now - she even got the exact same coach bag as me.
It is the same thing with uggs - I got my new tall gray Uggs - guess who went out and got the same ones.
I dyed my hair brown - she wants to dye her hair brown too.
I am not kidding - it is all of the time - anything I do she wants to do and then acts like it is her idea.
I have tried really hard to keep my mouth shut - but it is so hard. I want to just scream stop coping off of me.
Last night was the last straw. She told me her and her husband are going on a mini trip for their anniversary. Guess where they are going. To the Borgata in A.C. and seeing a comedy show. Isn't that exact same trip John and I took in May - the exact same thing. Are you kidding me - seriously think for yourself.
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That is a little creepy and over the top. I get the uggs or coach purses but the kitchen and vacation thing is crazy. I wonder if she even knows she is doing it.
Ugg that would piss me off too. But I would becareful saying anything too her of how you say it because you might lose a friend over it.
p.s. I live an hour from A.C. Teh last show I seen ther was "The Producers" it was really good.
That is so annoying. I have someone like that also. I was really annoyed by it for a while, and then just accepted that it's the way she is. She has other qualities that are really great, so I accept her copy cat flaw.
I have a friend who does the EXACT same thing. I bought a purse, she bought the same purse in a different color. It was really embarrassing when we would go place and we both had the same stupid purse on.
Your friend desperately needs to get something or some idea of her own. I feel bad for her (as I did for my friend) because she is so insecure with herself that she has to live off of the things and ideas of others--what an awful way to live! Maybe if you adopt that mindset, she won't make you feel as uncomfortable. She's a sad, sad person for having no confidence in her individuality.
Whoa!! thats way TOO MUCH!!! Hopefully it will stop or get much better.. sounds very annoying..
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