Freaking Out

He is really started to get upset and worked up over this whole IF situation. I guess he is finally starting to realize that IVF may be our only option and may have to be what it takes for us to get pregnant - he is freaking over the cost - he said that is his main concern - the cost - he does not want to spend that much money on something that many other people get for free - either do I - but we do not have much of a choice. Then the other day I suggest getting a second opinion and that I wanted to call and set up an appointment for some time in June - well he freaked again - he said he does not want to start all over again from the beginning and have to do all the testing all over again - which we would probably have to do - maybe not all of the testing but some of it. He said he does not want me to contact anyone until after the 3rd IUI - so for now - we are just going to concentrate on saving for IVF and our 3rd IUI - no more talk about second opinions or lap surgeries - I do not want to freak my husband out anymore.